Is there any way on the invitation, or otherwise, to avoid people RSVPing and not showing up because we are doing a pay per person wedding?
I know there is no way to avoid it completely, there will always be someone who says they will be there but won't show up. It's just our families are the type who have like potluck weddings and that type of thing where it isn't a pay per person ordeal, so they probably won't realize this is the type of wedding we are having...