I am having 3 BMs including my MOH. One of my BMs is a very dear friend from college. She is a 2nd-year associate at a law firm and EXTREMELY busy, so I actually even asked her with the caveat of 'I would love to have you but I will not be hurt if this is too much,' and she was very excited to be asked and perfectly fine with it.
The problem is that this BM has not yet picked up her dress for alterations. She's acknowledged it and keeps saying she will "do it soon" (she's mentioned it to me proactively; I only checked in with her once to make sure it came into the right store, because my MOH had problems with that). Our wedding is July 25, so it's starting to get a little bit close. Is there a point at which I should be nudging her a little more actively? I don't want to be a bridezilla or inconsiderate, but I also don't want her to not have a dress, or to let this go until the last minute if it's something I should be dealing with as the one planning this whole thing.
She is very, very busy at work, and admittedly the store is not terribly convenient to her (or me), but we needed a chain store because all 3 BMs were in different states, and that is the closest AA to where she or I live (the closest David's is literally across the street from AA). AAs at least in our state have terrible, terrible availability for fittings (2 weekdays a week only). I definitely recognize this and I've offered to drive down with her or to pick up her dress when I go for my own fittings. She said she'd considered picking it up and going somewhere closer to home for fittings and I made a point of telling her I was cool with that and thought that made sense. Is there anything else I can do?