Hi! I am getting married October 3rd this year. I have four bridemaids and they all have a different dress in a different color that go together great! They are all different shades of neutral/champagne/mocha. For the guys we were thinking a very dark charcoal grey. My sister had an idea that the guys tie should match the color of the dress of the girl they would be standing with. Would this be too much? Should we do just one shade of the neutral for all the ties? And what do you think of no vest/ dark grey vest/ neutral vest to match the tie? Sorry this is a lot, but I'm having troubles deciding. Thanks!!