I'm supposed to be getting married 11-7-2015. My mom passed away the 4th from metastatic breast cancer that she had for five years that went everywhere towards the end. Luckily, she was able to help me pick out my dress and we got married in her hospice room, so the 7th will be a "do-over".
Now all of a sudden, everyone wants to comment on my business and tell me what to do. My brother wants me to let him bring his girlfriend. I HATE his girlfriend. She called my mom a c*nt with cancer, me Voldemort, and was only marginally nice to my mom towards the end. My brother did a lot of low class things with her that I don't really want to elaborate on. I don't see why I should have to pay for her dinner when she called me names.
Some of my extended family thinks I should invite my estranged father and his side of the family since technically now I have no parents. My parents got divorced in 2012 after she got sick, but beforehand would push her wheelchair into walls and scream at her. Um, no!
My MIL has started signing her emails to me as "Mom" and calling me daily about why the wedding isn't done being planned. Maybe because my mom just died?!
I'm super annoyed and would love to hear advice or shared sympathy.