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who will walk me down the aisle?!
I have never met my father and don't exactly get along with my grandfather. Could my best friend (who would also most likely be my maid of honor) walk me down the aisle? I don't have many other close friends other than my boyfriend (of 3 years)'s family..and the walking of the bride down the aisle is suppose to be giving someone away and it doesn't exactly make since for his family to give me to his family XD. Just need some opinions.
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Re: who will walk me down the aisle?!
Anyone you want can walk you down the aisle - male, female, relative, non-relative. If you are close with your FI's (you said boyfriend - I'm assuming you are engaged though?) family, I think it's fine to ask one of them to fill the role.
And of course, there's nothing wrong with swinging it solo! "Giving away" is kind of an antiquated notion, IMHO. You are a grown, independent woman. For me the role is similar to that of the wedding party, a chance to honor someone who has been a significant figure in your life. And someone you want to hug right before you get married.
Anyone can escort you down the aisle. You choose. You can walk with your groom if you wish. (My sister did this.)
There is a place in most wedding ceremonies that says "Who gives (or presents) this woman in marriage?" or something like that. It is often omitted. If you do decide that you want to do this, then the person who represents your family says either "I do", Her mother does", or "Her family does". Personally, I like the last one. Anyway, this is the part of the ceremony where the bride is "given away".
I walked myself down the aisle and I have to say not only was it a personal choice but it was the best choice for me. You have to do what is right for you. It can be anyone--- but it is your choice.