Um... Sooo... 3 1/2 weeks until we get married and I'm finding mysel fhaving periodic freakouts- I'm sure I"m not alone. This thread is letting some of the crazy out.
I'll start:
I'm terrified that our venue will look too empty for our number of guests. NOBODY is bringing a +1 so consequently that means that our 75-100 person wedding is just cresting 75... I'm scared the room will look too empty.
I'm scared I won't finish my veil in time.
I'm worried that my hair and makeup lady sucks.
I'm afraid that there's something HUGE that I'm forgetting- like to invite my sister or get an officiant or something. (Yes, I've done these things.)
Re: Anyone else freaking out? Let your crazy out.
I am mainly just super excited and can't wait for the "Big Day" I have had a couple of wedding nightmare dreams this week though and that kind of freaked me out a little but I know I have everything major planned. I am trying to just go with the flow of everything and hope that all goes as planned and not freak out if something doesn't quite go the way I hoped of planned for originally. I can't believe I am getting married in just 3 and a 1/2 weeks. EEEK!!!!
I am 10 days away from the big day!!! I freaked out starting about the 1 month mark, and now the freak out is gone and the emotions are in full effect.
Your crazy will subside a little more, the closer you get. You will realize whatever happens....happens. The end result will be the same no matter what happens or who is there. You will be marrying the one you love!!!!!!!!!!
Deep Breathes Ladies!!!!!!!!
I'm 24 days out. At this point, I have days where I'm really calm, and then there are days when I'm a basketcase thinking about everything. Naturally, I'm a worrier, so my wedding. . . takes it up a few notches. I wish I could just calm down and realize that what will be will be. We are getting married and that's the most important thing.
Otherwise, I stress that as of now we have no wedding rings and no transportation (still debating whether we really need a limo or not. We might be able to get away with a town car for the day)
Mainly, I'm just stressing over all the logistics. Who is going where, do they know directions, will we have time for this. . .ETC, ETC, ETC.
And, I'll add that I'm just worried that I won't fully enjoy the day. I'll be too busy overthinking everything and worrying. Need to let everything go!!!
Hi, I'm an August 11 Bride, and I was like this. On the day of the wedding I just let EVERYTHING go. Worry about nothing but getting married.
If you're concerned you're possibly forgetting anything.. MAKE A LIST. Sit down and make a list of everythingyou have done/need to do, etc.
I did this on my BIO and color coded things I still had to do. GL!
Besides that, I just have a bunch of really small things that need to get done. SO CLOSE!!
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