My cousin and his fiance are getting married in April - on the other side of the country. They did not send out Save the Dates. I know they are having a small wedding. What I don't know is whether cousins will be invited to it. There are 4 of us (8 people total, including significant others and kids) so "small wedding" isn't really a clue as to whether we will be invited.
Would it be a huge etiquette faux pas if I were to ask my aunt and uncle whether my cousin planned to invite his cousins? I'm not fishing for an invite. But if we are going to be invited, I would like to start shopping for flights fairly soon so we can get a good price on them.
ETA - I ask about asking my aunt and uncle because I will be seeing them in two weeks.