We got engaged in April, and my fiance's brother married his wife by a Justice of the Peace November 2014 with the intention that they would have a reception later on. We asked them several times if they had any plans with no more than an "I don't know" as the reply. We moved along and set a date that would lead us right into our honeymoon, 9/17/16 in San Diego. Once we announced our date to the family, my fiances brother came back and said they were going to host their reception on 9/24/16, in Salt Lake City. We have already made it very clear that we will not be in attendance, but my future in laws seem to be allowing this to go forth. I feel very stressed and was wondering how to approach this topic in a way that doesn't come off as bridezilla-y. Am I crazy for feeling like our wedding is being put on the back burner?