My SIL has asked me to be her MOH - I'm feeling odd about it. First of all I'm in my 50's and she has a 26 year old daughter. I'm really thinking her "adult" daughter should have the honor. Now some additional background... my niece is living pay-check to pay-check obviously as an "older" person I'm financially better off. I think my SIL is hoping for all the "trimmings" as a second-time bride that's why she asked me over her daughter. But I think it's weird to have all that when we're in our 50's! I thought a "bachelorette" type shower would be fun and low key rather than the crazy big luncheon! So should I forge ahead as MOH or press the issue that the daughter should take the lead.... Thanks!