My fiancé has been divorced for 8yrs and has a 9yr old daughter. Our wedding is next week. Ex wife has been pumping their daughter for information about the wedding for months. We finally divulged the date to SD a few weeks ago and she in turn told her mother (okay). Ex wife told SD she wanted to come to the wedding. SD begged us to invite her mom. Fiancé said no, sorry but there's only a certain amount of people we can invite.
Today we went and looked at the venue and did a short run through of how we wanted everything set up. We are scheduled to have SD the day of the wedding. Tonight while SD and her mother were on the phone, fiamce overheard ex wife asking for the specific location and time of the wedding. SD is somewhat not keen on details, and gave vague answers.
Has anyone dealt with an unwelcome ex/ex friend/family member? The wedding is in a public place (museum) but has volunteers. Since sd will be in the wedding, I obviously do not want to make a huge scene if ex wife does in case show up. Fiamce doesn't think ex wife has the gall to show up, but she pulled a similar stunt about wanting to come when I gave birth to our daughter last year.