Last June when we started planning our wedding we decided to do a kid free wedding to help save cost. Plus in my opinion the kids don't need to be all the drinking, it is almost like taking kids to a bar. Our wedding is now 3 months away and my sister tells me I need to let my nephews come or my brother-in-law won't be coming because they can't find a babysitter. She has been giving me grief since day one about no kids coming and now I feel like she is putting me in a really bad position because if I stand by my decision I am the bad guy, but if I let them come I am caving in and going to make other guest upset because their kids couldn't come. I feel like she never tried to find a babysitter and she has had plenty of time and still has time, but she won't have it. Anyone else I wouldn't be so upset, but this is my sister and MOH.