I know this post could potentially go in Moms and Maids but I trust you snarky ladies and hope you can help me with this one. Fi and his mom have a strained relationship at best due to plenty of drama and family issues. She and I have virtually no relationship. I'm on a tolerance level and do my best to play nice despite the fact that she's about 5 miles off the reservation...
She'd been "behaving" herself if you will until recently and now Fi doesn't want to do a mother son dance. I think this will cause serious drama and she'll likely declare she won't come if he won't do a dance. I'm doing one with my father so it will be pretty noticeable and she will not be happy.
Do you knotties have any advice on how to handle this? Am I right in urging Fi to just get through it to avoid a WWIII? I support him either way but both of us are clueless on this one. We're just trying to get through the drama..