We're getting married in a month. FI was on the fence about inviting a married couple he knows from HS.
So back in June we had a BBQ, they showed up, and he decided at that point he wanted to invite them, then he emailed the husband for their address. Never heard back and told me to take their names off the list. FI said he did not ask them for their address specifically for wedding purposes,
just asked for their address. Although I'm sure if the wife even heard we asked, she would've known that's what it was for.
Now we're a month out, and yesterday FI says, "Oh, by the way, J wrote me back with his address today. Should we still invite them?" Lateness notwithstanding, we still want to invite them. But now it's really rude-late.
Should we mail them an invite ASAP with an apology or something? Our RSVP deadline is Friday. That's not an issue logistically, we left wiggle room, but it'll look pretty tacky when they get an invite on the 9th with an RSVP deadline for the 7th. What would you do next?