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Help!

FI's cousin lives with his grandmother, would it be rude to send one STD (they're magnets) to their house? If so, how would I address the envelope? 

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Re: Help!

  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
    10000 Comments 500 Love Its Fourth Anniversary 25 Answers
    edited August 2015
    It's fine. 

     Jane Smith 
    Tyler Smith 
    123 South Street 
    Anywhere, NY 12345


    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • STD are informal correspondence, and therefore any people in the same household can be included on one mailing.
    :kiss: ~xoxo~ :kiss:

  • SP29SP29 member
    Sixth Anniversary 2500 Comments 500 Love Its 5 Answers
    Agree. I'm in the boat that the same household doesn't need 2 fridge magnets. Include both names on it, on separate lines, as Addie has done.
  • @peanutbuttervibes I love your name. That's my jam.
  • One STD, yes - but separate invitations.  Unless the cousin is a minor and grandma is their guardian.
    **The OMH formerly known as jsangel1018**
  • You can send one STD per household, but you need to send one invitation per social unit.
  • How old is the cousin?  I'm going to suggest sending one STDate to each of them (so two to the house) just because I never got to see joint mail when I lived with my parents.  It would be on the side of the fridge for a month or two after being in a pile on the counter for a month or two before I'd finally see it.  Then I'd ask mom if this was for me too, and she wouldn't remember.  Or, if you decide to send only one STDate, text or email cousin to let him know it's for him too.  Because I'm going to guess that his grandma is a lot like my parents.
  • thanks everyone!

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