Our RSVP deadline was yesterday. We're still waiting for around 30 back (so 60 people total). Most are from FI's side and are OOT guests, so a majority will be no's (par for the course so far).
What irks me the most is that I'm still waiting on two friends to RSVP, who got married last year. I mean, do people get amnesia after their wedding and forget how stressful it is planning a wedding? I'm giving it until the mail comes on Sat and then following up w people we haven't heard from (FI will take care of his side, which is the majority)
We invited 170 and it looks like we will have around 100 (not including vendors) which I think is a great number. I feel like we'll get to see everyone and not be super overwhelmed.
Is anyone else really annoyed about people not sending RSVP's back in time? We sent STD's out in Jan, so IMO, people decided at that point whether or not they were coming, why hang on to the reply card?
Sorry, had to get that off my chest