So...I have a bit of a sticky situation. My sister is my MOH, and in some ways, we are very close, and others, I have difficulty. She is very controlling and pushy. She is also very much a person who loves to steal the limelight (she wanted to pick her MOH dress before I even had my dress, and was sending me pictures, of honestly, pretty revealing dresses, when we're having a church wedding). Then she didn't like the colors I picked (emerald green and blush pink) and she tried to push us towards something else. Luckily, my FI stood up for me on that, because I have a hard time doing that with her. She can also just be plain mean - she says I'm having a buffet which is tacky. Speaking of tacky, nothing we are doing is good enough, and she is pushing us to spend more and more on things. Even with the bridal shower, which she informed me I shouldn't get - because it will be a pain for her to plan - I will have to pay for because SHE doesn't have any money. So, I wanted something simple, lunch and wine with my favorite girls, but SHE wants brunch at a fancy restaurant on the coast that is at least an hour drive for everyone and $75/person! My FI and I are both simple people, we don't need/want anything fancy. I know some of it is jealousy, and some is just her domineering personality. I'm trying to find a way to keep things peaceful, but still get the wedding we want. I usually let her run over me, because I hate fighting, but she is very, very sensitive, and takes everything personally, so it's very hard to not start fights. And she is my sister, my family - this should be a time we are all happy, not bickering. I am starting to lose my mind with it all - too much stress, and out of ideas on how to make this all work. Any thoughts? Please & thanks.