My FI and I went to a wedding for his college friend in early May. My FI was a groomsmen, but neither one of ever met the bride until the day of the wedding. It was a hot (110 degrees!) mess of a wedding. The bride is very immature, I went to use the restroom and found her screaming at bridesmaids for taking photo booth photos without her.
Their wedding registry was so weird. It was mostly yoga/workout stuff for her and a few decorative items. HOWEVER, they had a Honey fund, OF COURSE. My FI wanted to gift towards the Honey fund, and after asking a few other groomsmen what they had decided to do, (all less than $50 options), my FI decided to gift a larger sum to help them out.
I spoke to another guest recently and she mentioned how she couldn't believe how fast they received their "Thank You" note. Weird. We didn't get any Thank You. The Bride and Groom didn't even talk to us at the rehearsal or wedding.
Am I being a giant B-word for expecting a thank you card?
I want a darn thank you card for sitting in the 110 degree heat and burning my legs on BLACK VINYL CHAIRS.