I have a small situation with my MIL and SIL. They are two very dear people to me and I love them, but their idea of helping with the planning so far has been to buy stuff (decorations, etc) without asking me or my fiance about it and then we are stuck using it.
For example: we are having cookies in small bowls on our tables at the reception. I just wanted plain little bowls, nothing fancy, so that it wouldn't distract from our decor.
They went out and bought these really fancy, crystal bowls. Not my taste at ALL, and they spent way too much money on something so insignificant!
Of course I will be using the bowls. The fact that they want to help so badly is appreciated.
The ONLY issue I have here is that they keep doing things without asking either of us first - if they had asked me about the bowls, I honestly would have said no. It isn't worth spending that much money on something no one will really notice.
What have yall done to calm down overexcited in-laws?
(And before anyone says it - I know they're just bowls and I appreciate the help... it's just that they often do things without asking.)