Vent!
My FH and I had a fight yesterday because I bought some stuff for the wedding without asking him his opinion. They are for the centerpieces! Keep in mind, we have a strict $10,000 budget for 175 guests, so I was going to use a combo of free centerpieces at our reception site, spruced up with some water light cubes and a few purple clear rocks. I spend $100 (in the budget) for this stuff, and he freaked out yesterday. I sware we had several conversations about it (because free+$100 for 20 centerpieces is a freaking steal).
On top of that, I had discussed with him a cake toper, either the initials or a crystal engraved heart with our names and the date. He said he liked the crystal better than the monogram, so I bought it (for $14.96 including personalization), and yesterday, he tells me that was not an approval to use it.
I was apologetic yesterday, but the more I think about it, the madder I get! He says he wants to be involved and have an opinion, but when I say its time to go to LA to buy stuff, or meet with the florist, or address the Save the Dates, he complains and wants to stay home and not be involved. Them when I do things without him, he gets REALLY mad!
I love my FH, and we have been together a long time. But as it gets closer (we are 116 days away as of today) he is starting to irritate me. He never gets mad, and in 6 years, I can count the times he is mad and we fight under ten.
Is this normal? Stress of the wedding? What should I do? I think if I bring this up again, he is only going to get mad all over again before hearing me out.