I apologize if this question has been asked before. FI and I are hosting the bar at our venue. We've told our venue, we'll pay for beer, wine and soda. The venue is wondering about hard liquor. It's a consumption bar, so we wouldn't know the total until after the reception. It's a smallish wedding, 75. But I'm not sure if hosting hard liquor would be in our budget. I was thinking of asking for them to not even have he hard liquor at the bar, as I've read that quests shouldn't pay for anything at the reception. FI thinks it's ok for guests to pay for hard liquor if that's what they prefer. What have other knotties done in this situation? What is the proper etiquette here? Thanks.