My fiancé and I each have a child from previous relationship.... two boys one is 6 the other is 4. We wanted to make sure they felt included in the wedding. My son will be walking me down the isle with my father and my fiancés son will be a ring bearer. Ive heard of the candle or sand during ceremony... Does anybody have any other cute ideas? I was also thinking about after we did our vows writing vows to our boys!? All ideas welcome thank you in advance!!!!