Due to a number of circumstances my fiancée and I are having a "private wedding". We became engaged a few weeks ago and will be getting married in 44 days. Only the officiant myself , the fi, his daughter and possibly both our moms will be present.
Reasons being:
- he's military and getting ready for deployment and frequently at sea and it's impossible to plan anything around a unknown schedule
- I want to avoid the really big wedding stress... Especially bc it brings up a lot of tough feelings about my dads passing
- We are in Va beach and all my family and friends are in Indiana and his in Georgia and Wisconsin or overseas we would have to wait until 2017 to plan a wedding where he won't be deployed and
My friends would have enough time to plan on attending.
I have told select people I'm getting married in that short of time. I want to tell my best girlfriends but I know a few will be upset. I will be home thanksgiving and thought I might have a get together and tell them then... Any advice on the best way to break the news?