Ive been lurking for a while and have seen the multiple stories about brides having issues/talking about their bad bridal showers. This April I marry my high school sweetheart from 30 years ago. Sadly, I made two mistakes before him so this will be my 3rd marriage. I also have 2 kids and a job that I have had since 2001.
Know how many bridal or baby showers that I have had? One- which was a baby shower for the birth of my 1st child in 1995. My mom hosted that and did not believe that you should have a shower for any subsequent children (despite my 2nd child being the opposite sex and 6 years between them so I had gotten rid of everything). I have never had a bridal shower at all and this is my 3rd marriage. It was not that I didnt want one just that noone ever offered. Its sad because weve had all sorts of baby showers etc at my work but noone had offered one for me there either.
Just thought I would post this for those that lurk and want to complain about how bad their shower was.