HELLO!!!!!!!! I'm getting married on January 8th 2017. Not much of the planning is done yet obviously. So far we have booked our venue which is super nice ( Catta Verdera Country Club ) and our photographer since those were the most important for me. EVERYTHING else we still need to do. Basically I am Mexican & my fiance is white. I have always wanted a very nice and pretty wedding. My family wants a huge wedding with Mexican food and music, and that is not what I want. I want a pretty wedding where no one has to worry about cooking, cleaning, setting up, etc. However, whenever I've told my family that they seem upset, like that is not good enough. I feel like they want to invite a bunch of people ( another problem I am having) I do not know. Any advice? I want them to have fun and enjoy my wedding but I am not inviting a lot of people in order to stay within my budget, which I am paying for like 80% of the wedding my fiance the other 10% and my family is helping with the other 10%. So, if they are helping they are going to feel entitled to inviting whoever they want. HELP! I want my wedding to be the way I want it, but still have my family like it and enjoy it
ADDITION: So I forgot to mention this I am not against having some Mexican music at the wedding that is fine but I do not want to have a Banda/Mariachi there I want a DJ so they can play music that my FI and I enjoy as well as some for my family i guess. The food is out of the question because my venue caters everything, and they give us the options there so there is not really any way we would have Mexican food. I just need advice on how to make me family be okay with what I am having, and also not invite people that I do not even know to the wedding. My venue is strict about $90 per guest and they need a final head count prior to the wedding, which is something my family is not familiar with at ALL... I'm going to have problems having the RSPV I already know....