Long-time lurker, first post! Yay!
Been engaged for just under a year, but we've only just made some firm-ish plans. We're both quite young (he's 22, I'm 20) and we want to make sure we're doing what's right for us and not just doing what's expected (been together over 5 years).
Anyway, our budget is basically what we can afford, because neither of us see much point in spending loads of money - we'd rather put it towards a house.
I digress.
Our budget is around £3500, which is like £5340-ish, which will be saved up over 12-18 months. Our ideal date is 4th November 2017, because it means due to the time of year we can get more for our money. And we both like autumn/winter. Win/win, really.
We're inviting ~40 people, give or take a few due to changes in SOs, including around 12 kids.
We're both non-religious, so we want to get married in our local registry office (which I guess is like an American courthouse?) and then we'll take everyone out for dinner somewhere nice (no cash bars, calm the f' down
). We've spoken to our first-choice restaurant, who've said we can get an awesome meal plus open bar for ~£1500. The place is gorgeous, so we won't need much-if-any in the way of decorations.
Does this sound alright, or would you guys side-eye it? My mum and soon-to-be-sister-in-law are pretty good at calling me out on any BS, but I just want to double check