Me and my wonderful fiance are getting married Sept 2017 ( as busy as we are we needed the extra planning time). Im getting alot of feedback from friends and co workers as far as my color scheme. now we are very proud to be apart of the LGBT community, especially being that we can now get married in our home state of NC, so we decided to incorporate the rainbow into our wedding but i recently got some feedback about that saying it would look "childish" or that im "shoving the gay down peoples throats" ! Now that last statement shocked me completely. She really looks forward to the rainbow as well as me and i thought if i blended it in well and not too bold it would work out. i guess my question is : its that "childish" or "shoving gay down peoples throats ?