A few months ago my girlfriend and I agreed to meet her parents for the holidays. But since then I’ve developed doubts about the relationship. (She’s bossy, domineering, and I am happier on days when she doesn’t call. Nice one minute, a controlling terror the next.) Plans for the holidays have been firmed up, and I have zero enthusiasm to go. Do I go through with it and play the part of serious boyfriend when meeting the whole family? Break up with her (which will be epic) right before the holidays? Or come up with some convoluted excuse not to go on the trip and break up after the holidays? Wish I had planned this one better.