Hello Brides,
I have recently got engaged and am planning our December 2016 wedding. We've found a great venue, and are so excited!
I am a little confused over the "cash bar" etiquette (here in the UK, I've never been to an open bar wedding, and I want to be sure I get this right!)
We are on a tight budget (less than £4,000), but I believe in good hosting and ideally don't want my guests to open their wallets at my wedding.
Is it acceptable to offer a selection of complimentary drinks, and then have a cash bar available if anyone wants something different?
We are going to offer Prosecco and Winter Pimms after the ceremony, and then a selection of red and white wine, and a beer. We will simply keep a tab and pay for it at the end of the evening (soft drinks provided throughout).
However, I want to ensure that if anyone prefers a specific drink (e.g. if old Uncle Allan that I've never met only drinks scotch), there is a full bar available in the venue, which guests can use if preferred.
I see this as providing for my guests with plenty of drinks options, but also accounting for anyone that prefers different options. We simply can't afford a full open bar. Is our plan acceptable? Or would providing Prosecco, Winter Pimms, wines and beer be contravening etiquette because it's not a "full" open bar?
All opinions appreciated.
Have a wonderful day, ladies!