The first baker we did a tasting with, we really fell in love with the cake and filling. We paid a $300 deposit fee for a cake and were told to send all sorts of pictures of the dessert table I want and that we'd talk via email. Since then, the e-mail and communication has been absolutely abysmal and none of my questions have been answered. We've really wanted to order a few desserts, but there is a special one my fiance wants which is Cream Puffs. However, he would like to taste them before we order them. But, the bakery will not let us taste them or purchase them individually to taste. They insist we purchase a whole batch for $45. This seems ridiculous to me and I'm at my wits in freaking out about them. Their lack of communication makes me worry that they will ruin my wedding by not being reliable. Is this normal? Can we get our deposit back?