Since my wedding (and joining these excellent boards) I've taken an interest in etiquette. I've read about it a bit since then. I'm still working through all of Judith Martin's stuff, but I also picked up a few pieces of the Emily Post Institute brand.
While advice of Emily Post Institute on etiquette generally seems sound... I run into things that seem to contrast starkly with what I have come to understand as good etiquette from these forums and also etiquette masters like Judith Martin. Some of it makes me cringe a little (the main one that comes to mind is the expectation that wedding guests and wedding party members provide a gift to the bridal couple)
Recently, I went to an engagement party and gifted Martin's book on wedding etiquette to the bride-to-be... and joked that I couldn't abide her reading anything by Emily Post Institute! Hah, I can't say its as bad as all that, but in general, I don't trust that advice so well.
Does anyone else here have an opinion on Emily Post? I know she died in 1960, so I wonder if her Institute has simply had poorer standards of etiquette than she did?