We live in Minnesota & are getting married in South Carolina. My fiancé &I will be flying to SC & of course flying back home from SC to MN. I'll have a hard enough time just flying back squeezing my wedding dress/cake top etc back home with us. We simply cannot fly back with "boxed" presents. I feel as though I'd almost have to get them boxed and shipped at a local ups. I have a wedding website & It does have a tab for "registries". My fiancé & I haven't planned on registering. We have lived together for 3 years we have a very established household. However we do have future plans, buy a house, go on honeymoon, have a child. Where cash would really help us. What I'm getting at is how can I tactfully let guests know that we are only wanting monetary gifts. Please be nice I know that everyone thinks insinuating for cash is rude but if our wedding was local I'd be more open to boxed gifts but our situation is different. I will absolutely have nothing on invitations about gifts. But I know by word of mouth & by the website there's a way I can hopefully make this as classy as possible. Any suggestions? Thank you