My husband and I did the catholic marriage prep, the Nupitual Mass, and our families gathered it was a lovely event. The priest truly took great care with everything. Wonderful start to our lives together. I used the copy of the certificate to do all of the name changing within months of our ceremony. But 36 years later we needed a certified copy of our certificate from the state for foreign taxes. I ordered a copy - after 2 weeks we get a certified letter from the State informing us that there is no record of these two people ever being married. After exhausting all of the avenues, we are at the point of buying a license, having a very small civil ceremony and moving forward. How do we word the invitation? Our siblings, our children are in loop.....and laughing. Lots of good natured teasing.....