I have a childhood friend as one of my maids. She is the only one who hasn't met my man. She is the only one who hasn't said congratulations yet but she's my oldest friend and I figured she's always been a little shy with her emotions so I'd ask her to be a maid anyway.
Starting out she was the typical horror story. "I can't wear that color come on." "I get to pick out my dress right...". But as the months have gone by I've shared every fun detail with her anyway and she either doesn't answer my texts or sends me one-emoji back as a response. She is my only maid who hasn't offered support in any way or shown any enthusiasm (gimme some YAYYs or !!!!'s).
I am questioning her participation but she's my oldest friend and our mothers are best friends.
Any advice to asking a best friend if she just doesn't want to share in your day? We rarely talk and never see each other but I'm still afraid to lose her "friendship".