I got married about two years ago before my older sister. During my fathers speech, he gave me a tiara. It has meant so much to me to have this small gift from the wedding. My father passed away about a year ago. It has been an extremely difficult time. He wasn't there for when my older sister got engaged- she is getting married in August. I am her matron of honor and have to give a speech during the reception. I really want to give her the tiara my father gave to me but I am not entirely sure of when to do this. Do I give it to her during my speech like my father did, or do I give it to her earlier in the day? If I give it to her during my speech do I mention it's being passed on to her? Or do I skip it entirely? I'm in need of some advice!