So let me start by saying that my mother and I have clashed from day one with wedding planning.... From my bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the food, my dress, who is invited, the list goes on. But this latest I'm not sure what to do: my purple hair. I love it. I have dark brown hair naturally and have the underside a deep intense purple that is not super in-your-face in my opinion. My mother hates it. She keeps telling me I cannot have it on my wedding day. Honestly it had never occurred to me not to have it. I really want to tell her that if it's such a big deal to her, she can pay to have the color corrected, but since I'm paying for my hair appointments I'm leaving it purple for the day. Is that unreasonable? Thank you!