The board is too quiet so I figured I'd start a thread. Write a note to FI about things that may be bothering you or you are GREATLY appreciative of during this stressful time.
I'll Start...
Dear FI
I'm so glad we had our talk last night and you FINALLY opened up to me about everything that is bothering you. I'm sorry your cousin (from MIAMI) is pissed because she can't bring her kids, but lets remember she didn't have kids at her wedding either and the last wedding she came to up here she brought her SIL to watch the babies, why can't she do that for us. I'm really over everyone putting their 2 cents in and I know you are too. We will have a wonderfulday no matter what. I haven't told you my cousin (from ATL) is bringing her child because I know that will piss you off. I have been working on finding someone to watch that rugrat too. I'd rather have no kids screaming during OUR ceremony and I'd rather have a happy husband on our wedding night.
I can't wait for the wedding stress to be over soon and for me to have a job again to help contribute to our family.
Love,
Your wife to be