12 noon ceremony 6pm reception how rude

hyechica81 · April 2016

ok so i was looking up something on the knot in the registry page was looking up someone who is getting married for there website well apparently there are two people with the same first name and last name both both brides and both grooms who would figure thats one in a million getting married well i didn't look at the location and clicked on the wrong one.

anyways this bride and groom are getting married at 12 noon and having an adult reception at 6 how tacky is that really,
so ceremony ends at around 1 130 depending on how late it starts when people get to the church.

this is so wrong on so many levels you have a reception immediately following the ceremony or if you have to drive a least a 30 minute drive max to reception site.

i feel bad for all those attending and those who wont because of the long gap

ScottishSarah · April 2016

Whhyyyy!!!

ScottishSarah · April 2016

But I'm sure they have a special and unique situation though.

SP29 · April 2016

ScottishSarah said:

But I'm sure they have a special and unique situation though.

Always

hyechica81 · April 2016

so i found the right bride groom i needed info for and they have a great timeline ceremony and reception at the same place and its immediately following.

now this other couple they probably wanted the big church wedding, and didn't want to sacrifice a evening reception so they will expect the guest to come church dressed go home change relax then get ready all over again. now the bride will have to undress and re dress again unless she plans on being in her dress all day. and what about the photographer i need you for church then you have the whole day free come back at 6 do my reception.

if i was a guest at that wedding i would be pissed as hell you are making me wait several long hours for reception i would probably decline the invite and i can assure you many that show up to church might not show up to reception they might be tired by the time the night comes.

STARMOON44 · April 2016

Honestly why can you not use capitalization and punctuation? Why? Your posts are terrible to read and it makes you seem like an idiot.

TrixieJess · April 2016

I'm just not understanding why the reception is 18 hours later or is it 6 am? This is why the 24 hour clock is preferable when speaking of time.

Also, complete sentences have things called punctuation and captilisation, please feel free to use them at any time. I highly recommend "The Elements of Style" by Strunk and White. Here's a link:

https://faculty.washington.edu/heagerty/Courses/b572/public/StrunkWhite.pdf

softkittywarmkitty · April 2016

The wedding is at 12 am? Are they sleeping after, and that's why there is a gap?

hyechica81 · April 2016

sorry reception said 12 noon not am. and as for punctuation i will try to be better at it, i have dyslexia and i am not very open about it as i struggled with it all my life and still do

TrixieJess · April 2016

I have a form of dyslexia too that makes it difficult to see numbers properly, I work in Accounting. I learned methods of working with the dyslexia in order to do what I love. You can find coping strategies.

justsie · April 2016

I have dyslexia as well, I didn't realize it also affects punctuation?

TrixieJess, I don't know how you did that! I also have difficulty with numbers and passing a math class in college that only looked at the answer you received was tough for me. Of course, accounting was not my major so I didn't have to find coping skills as it wasn't as necessary.

TrixieJess · April 2016

I was really lucky that I was diagnosed very early and had access to resources that allow me to cope. However, all my work gets double-checked before I hand it in to my boss.

Sherbie25 · April 2016

STARMOON44 said:

Honestly why can you not use capitalization and punctuation? Why? Your posts are terrible to read and it makes you seem like an idiot.

hyechica81 said:

sorry reception said 12 noon not am. and as for punctuation i will try to be better at it, i have dyslexia and i am not very open about it as i struggled with it all my life and still do

@STARMOON44are you going to apologise for the 'idiot' remark? It was really rude. Especially when we all talk on here about how we don't hurt others. I felt really bad for her, especially as she was talking about other people's bad etiquette and obviously has the kind of mindset we actively encourage on this forum!

STARMOON44 · April 2016

Sherbie25 said:

STARMOON44 said:

Honestly why can you not use capitalization and punctuation? Why? Your posts are terrible to read and it makes you seem like an idiot.

hyechica81 said:

sorry reception said 12 noon not am. and as for punctuation i will try to be better at it, i have dyslexia and i am not very open about it as i struggled with it all my life and still do

@STARMOON44are you going to apologise for the 'idiot' remark? It was really rude. Especially when we all talk on here about how we don't hurt others. I felt really bad for her, especially as she was talking about other people's bad etiquette and obviously has the kind of mindset we actively encourage on this forum!

Nope. Not using any capitalization or punctuation does, in fact, make you seem like an idiot, even if you aren't. She posts frequently and often has interesting things to say, but her posts are very hard to read.

holyguacamole79 · April 2016

@STARMOON44 didn't call her an idiot. She said it can seem like it. I can't lie; I can't take posts like @hyechica81 's seriously.

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