Hey all! I know it's rude to ask guests to pay for anything at all, but I'm seeing a lot of mixed information on exactly ~who~ pays for a bachelorette party. I'm thinking of planning a Muse Paint Bar party followed by casual drinks/dancing at bars in the area for my sister's bachelorette... in this case, is it still rude to ask people to bring money? If not, how do I communicate this to people... do I include it in the invitation, or word of mouth? Head count is 12 people.