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Um...wow.

mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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Dear Prudence,

I recently caught my fiancé and his sister together and broke up with him. I’d always gotten a strange feeling about their closeness, but I didn’t believe it until I saw with my own eyes. To my family and friends, it seems like I woke up one morning and decided not to get married. Everyone is pushing me to work things out with my fiancé. Initially, I wanted to keep what I saw between them and me. If I tell people they have an incestuous relationship, it would probably destroy their lives. I know they’re barely functioning and terrified I will tell people about them. I’m worried I will seem spiteful if I tell even a few trusted loved ones the real reason I called off the wedding. At the same time, I’m heartbroken too and don’t know how much longer I can handle lectures about “letting a good man get away.” Should I stay quiet or speak up?

—Too Close for Comfort

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    ShesSoColdShesSoCold mod
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    Holy shitballs.
    Image result for someecard betting someone half your shit youll love them forever
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    6fsn6fsn member
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    My first thought was therapist stat, but the cheating line is perfect.
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    charlotte989875charlotte989875 member
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    I read that initially as FI was with LW's sister and was like why in the world would the family be pushing her back to him.

    Is it bad I kind of want to know how the FI tried to explain this?
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    tigerlily6tigerlily6 member
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    *crickets chirping* Wowzers. 

    Therapist for sure. 
                        


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    glasgowtolondonglasgowtolondon member
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    Holy crap, some people have such dramatic lives. This is the kind of shit you don't want to happen to yourself or anyone close.....but maybe an aquaintance of some sort so that you can watch the drama from afar. 
                 
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    [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    *Barbie* said:
    missJeanLouise said:
    A simple "he cheated on me and I won't discuss the details" will both let people know and cause a stir. They will want to know more, but hold your ground. And maybe see a counselor as I couldn't keep this to myself and would have to talk to somebody about it.
    That was essentially my thought. "He's a cheating asshole, and I have no desire to marry someone like that." *drops mic, walks away*

    she doesn't need to tell people that he thinks he's Jamie Lannister.
    I was just going to ask if she was marrying into the Lannister family.
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    MesmrEweMesmrEwe member
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    Even if the sister was adopted - yea - no - "He's a cheater, I caught him, that's all I have to say about that!" is more than sufficient as the PP stated!

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