i am having trouble inviting some of the people I work with and not others. I don't want to hurt any feelings. We work for a school district and the wedding is in the summer, when we are off. It's a 2nd marriage for both of us and trying to keep it smallish. I've worked with some of these people for more than 20 years, we are work friends but, not outside of work. I haven't really talked about the wedding but, with Facebook people will post pictures afterwards. Is it tacky to ask the ones I'm inviting not to talk about it? Or just deal with it? I've even considered not inviting any of them.