Hey everyone! I'm new to this site so I apologize if this isn't exactly the right place to post this.
So I've been married for about 3 years now after dating DH for nearly 5 years before we made it official. To get straight to the point, however, I'm a girl who enjoys my alone time (if you know what I mean
). A few days ago, DH went out with a friend (something he does most weeks, and usually keeps him out of the house until late). I took the opportunity to enjoy myself, but lo and behold he came home pretty early and I was right in the middle of it! No embarrassing moments as I was able to readjust before he came to our bedroom, but it got me thinking.
I feel like maybe I'm a bit obsessed. The incident caused me to think about how often I self-indulge, and it's just about every time I have a moment to myself at home. Since we don't have kids, this is usually at least once a day. This seems normal for a teenager, but I just turned 31 a couple of months ago. I never had considered it to be a lot before, and it doesn't affect our sex life really. Also, I'm not exactly ashamed, but I do feel like maybe I should back off a bit. Just wondering what you ladies think/if I'm an outlier! Thanks!