Wedding Woes

Still smarting from BIL's drunken rant.

Dear Prudence,
My brother-in-law got very drunk on New Year’s Eve and said some very rude, offensive things to me, finishing with, “And I could go even deeper with this.” I understand he was drunk, but to me that just means he said what he really thinks without his filters. I always thought we had a good relationship, but I’m really at a loss here. I understand he’s family, but I don’t trust him now, knowing the awful things he said. How do I approach this? He hasn’t said a single word about this, even though he remembers what happened.

—Forgiving Family

Re: Still smarting from BIL's drunken rant.

  • ShesSoColdShesSoCold bend over and I'll show ya mod
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    Again, where is the spouse?!
    Image result for someecard betting someone half your shit youll love them forever
  • And where is SIL?   If BIL is husband's bro then where's the husband??

  • AddieCakeAddieCake Beyond the Wall member
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    I wouldn't be spending any time with him in the future, and if he's my BIL b/c he's my spouse or sibling's husband, I'd expect them to stand up for me or not expect to see me anymore, either. 
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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