My MOH is planning my bachelorette party and has asked everyone invited if a weekend trip would fit their budgets and they all agreed. MOH has been trying to figure out a weekend that works for everyone and its been very difficult.
MOH was able to rent a house from a family friend for very cheap (we'd
only have to cover the cleaning fee $250) from a Thursday to Sunday. It
is located in Lake Tahoe and is about a 1-3 hour drive from everyone
invited. My MOH and I are both able to take off work for the entire trip
and since I have one sister that can't take Fridays off and another
that cannot take Sundays off work, it seemed like this would be a good
solution so everyone can come and go as they please.
She said she would put together an itinerary of things we could
possibly do each day (i.e. Go paddle boarding, go to the beach, bbq at
the house, go out to dinner and a bar) and then let everyone know that
we will be there Thursday-Sunday and everyone is able to show up and
MOH said that everyone should split the cleaning fee equally if they decide to come. so it would be $35-60 per person(depending on how many people can make it), regardless if they stayed one night or 3 nights. The house has a lot of rooms and everyone would get a proper bed.
I've never been invited to anything like this, so I just wanted to see if anyone felt like this was rude or breaking etiquette.