Hi Everyone! I need some thoughts on this. We are getting married next year and are really trying to keep our invite list down. Most of our guests will be coming in from out of town, some have young kiddos. What are you thoughts on only inviting the out-of-towner kiddo's and not the local kiddos. It will be easier for local folks to locate baby sitters for their kids versus out of towners. I know this is a touchy subject because you are allowing for one but not the other.
Part of what is driving this is my FH has some friends who have these 5 y/o twins that are absolute monsters and the little girl will scream and cry if she is not the center of attention. I am not one who requires the spotlight at all but I don't want my guests to suffer because "she" isn't getting the attention she thinks she needs. I know it sounds selfish but I am thinking more about my guests than anything since 70% of them will be traveling in.