Dear person venting on wedding bee (and anyone else who may feel the same way),
I actually don't know who you are on the knot but I doubt you were being harassed. You may have been called out for providing advice that is against standard and accepted good wedding etiquette. That can be your opinion all you like, but the primary purpose of this board is to provide good etiquette tips for weddings. If your advice is contrary to that, you will be corrected. It's nothing personal. People here don't have it in for anyone nor do they have any skin the game. But wouldn't you rather KNOW if something was poor etiquette ahead of time and be able to make changes than have people judge or side eye your wedding down the road?
Lurk around, read some posts, and you'll learn some stuff. Most people on here have been called out once or twice.
Also, many people read more than one forum and can see your vent.
Sincerely,
Someone else who has been told some of her ideas aren't good and isn't offended by that.