Dear Prudence,
A year and a half ago, my only living son killed himself. His estranged wife had called me to say he was threatening to hurt himself and that I should check on him. I found the body. My only source of light since then is my little grandson. My relationship with his mother is difficult at best. She was the one who wanted the divorce and didn’t want to try and save my son. Now she is getting married again. This stranger will be the one who raises my grandson, gets called Daddy, and might even adopt him. There is nothing I can do legally and I choke back my words even time I see her when she picks up my grandson from me. Can you think of anything to say that will convince her to stop this?
—Lost Son and Now Grandson