The day I joined The Knot I was dealing with the latest of my FMIL drama. Truthfully, it was a small thing. But, it was big to me that day, and by then I had lost count of all the things- big and small. Nothing has been easy with FMIL. I did however think I was over the drama shortly after the cake drama. FMIL and a BFF tried to victim shame me and then told FI that she'd rather he not marry me if I wasn't willing to do everything she wanted for the wedding. We all sat down, hashed everything out, apologies all around, and forgave what was said.
A quiet three weeks here, and then we had a family dinner where the subject of our honeymoon was brought up. She asked. We told her where we plan on going and that it was going to be delayed because it is a seasonal destination. Now FMIL is sending us dates that work for her, as in, she thinks she is going on our honeymoon with us. I am just stunned. No words for it. I told FI to handle it, because I can't even at this point.
Buying a dress for me without me even seeing it or knowing about it, was huge. I don't even know how to process this. I keep wondering if I'm being pranked or something. The constant barrage is overwhelming.