I have struck up a flirtation with one of my new neighbors. He is cute, funny, and I really feel a spark between us. We walked to a local bar and he told me he felt the same way about me, but that is he is in the middle of getting a divorce. They don’t have kids, but during the separation his wife got diagnosed with a serious illness and needs his insurance since hers is terrible. I have a rule about dating married men: don’t. But he was straight with me from the start and has lived in my complex since March. Should I give it a go? I am not looking to settle down anytime soon and it is hardly fair for him to live like a monk when he is being generous and kind here. Thoughts?