I know this might go better under Customs, but this board moves really fast, so I thought I'd try here.
I'm trying to think of a way for FI and I to honor our grandparents, and a cousin that have been departed. It's a head scratcher on how to do it. I know our parents and our aunts and uncles will really appreciate it (it's come up), but I don't want to do anything morbid, or that would upset anyone.
My mom had an idea of at some point at the beginning of the ceremony, maybe laying down a single rose, maybe on the table in front of our unity candle, and then mention a blip about it in our program? I find pictures and empty seats to be a little hard to take, and could be upsetting to some.
Any other ideas? I'm all ears. I know a lot of people use trinkets from loved ones, (cufflinks, lockets, etc) but unfortunately, we do not have any of those.