One of my bridesmaids Karen, has been a good friend of mine for nearly 17 years. I am so excited to have her be a part of our wedding!
We have had a couple issues when it comes to my wedding though. When our wedding invites went out she posted a picture of the whole invitation suite on FB, with clear pictures of the details on the invitation. I asked her to take it down and she did, but it seems rude to post it in the first place. Especially since we have really limited our guest list and we have many mutual friends that DF and I couldn't invite.
The most recent issue is that rehearsal dinner invites went out and Karen called my soon to be MIL to RSVP. Karen has kids and a few months ago I talked with her about the rehearsal dinner being adult only. She said she understood and it wasn't brought up again. My MIL called me today to mention that Karen just RSVP'd for her, her DH, and their kids to the rehearsal dinner. Very politely, my MIL reminded her that it was adults only (the invite was even addressed to Mr and Mrs. Jacobs, while their wedding invite was addressed to The Jacobs Family) and Karen seemed surprised. It just bothered me, since we had already talked about it a few months ago!
I'm not considering removing her as a bridesmaid, but theses things have really bothered me.
Any advice moving forward??